Should I double text her?
Verdict first
Double texting is fine once, after some time, with something new. It's needy when it's fast, repeated, or asks why she hasn't answered.
When it's fine
She went quiet mid-conversation, a day or more has passed, and you have something new to say. Life happens — sometimes she just forgot to reply.
When it's needy
Following up within hours, sending "hello?" or "??", or a third and fourth message. Each extra text moves you from interested to anxious.
What to send
Not a reminder of what she didn't answer — a fresh, easy topic:
Saw a dog in a tiny raincoat today and figured you needed to know
Finally tried the place you recommended. Okay, you have taste
After the double text
If she answers warmly, carry on like nothing happened — no "finally!". If she doesn't, stop. The silence is the answer.
Verdict