She says "you're sweet" — good or bad?
Verdict first
"You're sweet" is a compliment, not attraction. It usually shows up when you're being nice in a way that asks for nothing. Keep the kindness, add some tension: tease, lead, make plans.
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What she's telling you
Sweet means safe. Safe is good for trust and bad for chemistry. If every message is agreeable and supportive, there's nothing for her to lean into.
How to reply
Accept it, then flip the dynamic with a little play:
What changes the pattern
Have opinions, tease a little, disagree sometimes, and suggest the plan instead of asking what she'd like to do. Kind and decisive beats kind and agreeable.
Verdict
Stay kind. Stop being only agreeable.
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