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She says "maybe another time"

Verdict first

Look at what comes with it. "Maybe another time — how about Sunday?" is a real rain check. "Maybe another time" and nothing else is a soft no. Accept it gracefully and let her make the next move.

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Real rain check or soft no

Real: she explains, suggests another day, or brings it up again later.

Soft no: no alternative, no follow-up, and the same answer the next time you ask.

What to reply

Easy and confident, with the door open:

Don't ask three times

Ask once, maybe twice if she gave a reason. After that, stop inviting. If she wants to see you, she knows how to say so.

Verdict

A rain check comes with a new day. Without one, step back.

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