She's hot and cold — what does it mean?
Verdict first
Hot and cold means you're one of her options, not her choice. You can't fix it by trying harder — only by stepping off the rollercoaster.
What's going on
When she's bored or lonely, she's warm. When something better is around, she cools off. Every time you chase the cold phase, you teach her that the warm phase can come whenever she likes.
What to do
Match her energy, don't exceed it. Invest when she invests. When she goes cold, get busy with your life — not with figuring her out.
Sounds like you've got a lot going on. Ping me when things calm down
The real test
Invite her out once, concretely. Women who are into you show up. Women who keep you on the hook keep it to texting.
Verdict